How to Stay Safe While Online Dating

Start with Profile Privacy

Before you even send your first message, review your privacy settings. Real Girls allows you to control who can view your profile and contact you. Consider limiting visibility to verified members only, and avoid sharing personally identifiable details like your full name, address, or workplace in your bio.

Verify, Don't Assume

While our verification system helps reduce fake profiles, it's still wise to take extra steps. Request a video call early in the conversation. Seeing and hearing someone in real-time is the best way to confirm they are who they claim to be. Most genuine people won't mind a quick chat.

Spotting Red Flags

Be alert for warning signs such as:

• Refusing to video chat or meet in person after an extended period.
• Asking for money or financial assistance.
• Pressuring you to share intimate photos or information.
• Inconsistent stories or details that don't add up.
• Getting overly serious or moving too quickly without having met.

Protect Your Financial Information

Never send money to someone you've only met online, regardless of their story. Scammers often create elaborate scenarios to manipulate emotions. If someone asks for money, report them immediately and block contact.

Meet in Public Places

When you decide to meet offline, always choose a public location like a café, restaurant, or park. Avoid isolated places. Let a friend or family member know where you're going and who you're meeting. Share your live location if you feel it's necessary.

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels off, it probably is. Don't ignore gut feelings about a person or situation. It's okay to end a conversation or cancel a meeting if you feel uncomfortable. Your safety comes above all else.

Use Platform Tools

Real Girls provides reporting and blocking features. Use them liberally. If a user behaves inappropriately, report them immediately. Our moderation team reviews all reports and takes appropriate action to keep the community safe.

Limit Personal Information on Social Media

Be mindful of what your social media profiles reveal. Scammers can use information from Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn to craft convincing stories. Adjust your social media privacy settings and avoid linking your dating profile to public social accounts.